The most thoughtful gift guide

Gifts for legacy builders, values seekers, and more

I often say that giving gifts is my love language. I’ve inherited this trait from both of my grandmothers, Janet and Virginia. Growing up, I looked forward to my family’s Christmas Eve celebration because I knew they’d put a lot of time and energy into finding and curating the perfect gifts. And yes, this isn’t what the holidays are all about, but as a child, it sure made those moments feel extra special.

As I get older, my perspective on stuff has changed. I live a fortunate and blessed lifestyle and don’t need more things. Maybe you feel this way, too. But I’m still a gift-giver at heart, albeit a more intentional one. That’s why I scoured the internet and curated a list of unique gifts to give your loved ones this season. Let’s get into it!

Note: A majority of these links are not affiliate links (meaning I don’t earn a commission or kickback for sharing them). There are a few affiliate links, indicated with an asterisk (*). All affiliate link purchases help me continue to invest in Time Intentional. I appreciate your support!

Gifts for legacy builders

Brand

Description

Price Range (USD)

Confinity

Confinity is an early platform and digital home for legacy preservation. It’s a private space for capturing memories, milestones, and photos. Think social media-like, but for legacy building!

$100-$300

Storyworth

Turn your most meaningful stories into a published, preserved book to pass down to future generations. Share your stories through writing or voice to transform them into a memoir.

$84+

Duncan & Stone Legacy Journals

A gorgeous legacy journal for those who want to leave a handwritten legacy behind. Add memories, photos, advice, and more.

$52+

A Living Tribute (Plant a Tree)

Honor your loved ones and friends by planting a tree. Plant a tree in memory or in honor.

$9.99+

Petite Keep

Personalized keepsake trunks for holding your most precious memories.

$175+

Gifts for mortality awareness

Brand

Description

Price Range (USD)

Hello, Mortal Subscription

The Hello, Mortal newsletter, part of the Hello, Mortal ecosystem, offers a thoughtful integration of mortality awareness into everyday life. It is one of my favorite reads on the internet.

Can read some posts for free; paid subscription starting at $50/annually

The Order of the Good Death Membership

A membership (or donation) that goes toward resources, educational content, legislative advocacy, and other nonprofits addressing death-related issues. Neat work!

Starting at $5/month or give a one-time donation (any price)

The Death Deck Game

A lively, death-based card game for a memorable night with your loved ones or friends.

$29.95 + shipping

Memento mori Skull Necklace

For those who are into daily mortality awareness reminders, this Memento mori (“Remember you must die”) necklace has stellar reviews.

$30+ (on sale at the time of research)

Get It Together: Organize Your Records So Your Family Won’t Have to* (End of Life Organizer)

This one is a little grimmer but incredibly useful. Organize your paperwork and personal information for your loved ones or executor in the event of your departure (or another life-altering event).

$5+ (used copies) or ~$20+ for a new one

Gifts for values seekers

Brand

Description

Price Range (USD)

The Live Your Values Deck*

A 78-card deck and accompanying booklet offer a practical set of tools, first to determine what matters most to you, then to learn how to live accordingly.

$19.95+

The Values Bridge

A scientifically validated assessment designed to give users a deeper, more specific understanding of their values. (One of the most comprehensive values assessments I’ve ever taken!)

The free version gives you a preview of your results, or get a one-year subscription for $29.99 to view your full results, compare results with loved ones, and measure progress over time

Start With Values: How to Build a Life with Meaning and Purpose*

Written by Brad Hook, founder of the Values Institute, this book contains practical tools to reveal the impact our values have on shaping our lives.

$9.99+ on Kindle, $18+ paperback

Teen Identity & Values Workbook

Start values-led conversations early with your teens! A printable values kit created by a trained kids’ emotion coach and experienced teacher.

$5.20 (Must print yourself!)

Life Designer Journal Exclusive*

A guided journal for creating a life by design, not default. Define what matters most in your life and take action.

$39 (Check for sales and discounts)

Gifts for building presence

Brand

Description

Price Range (USD)

Transform Your Life: 52-Week Guided Journal for Personal Growth and Reflection (Passion Planner)

A 52-week guided journal with five essential pillars for creating a foundation for personal growth. Spend a few minutes each week fully present with yourself.

$42+

$15 off a purchase of $50 or more*

Gratitude Plus App

My favorite app for gratitude journaling. Jot down a few things you’re grateful for daily, and join Circles to practice gratitude with others.

Join my Circle and practice gratitude with me!

Join for free; upgrade to the Premium version ($39.99/year) for additional features

Rupi Kaur’s Writing Prompts Balance*

Pull a card and explore the concept of balance in your life with these reflection prompts.

$13+ (on sale at the time of research)

Hugimals

The most adorable, high-quality, weighted plush animals that “hug you back” to lower stress, boost feelings of calm, and help with sleep and focus. Perfect for grounding in the moment.

$12-$126+

Brain Games - Everyday Mindfulness Word Search*

Enjoy a mindful moment with a brief word search!

$12.98+

And finally, don’t forget I keep a running list of book recommendations for Time Intentional readers. You and/or your loved ones or friends might enjoy one or more of the books on this list*:

Book recommendations for Time Intentional readers on Bookshop.org

A preview of the Time Intentional book recs roundup on Bookshop.org

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And I’d be remiss not to remind us all that our time is one of the greatest gifts we can give the people we love this holiday season. We rarely know how many holiday seasons we have left together. You might spend your last holiday season with someone you love this year. Make it count! ❤️

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